Category Archives: Single Life

New Fantasy Files Website!

Hi everyone! I hope you had a great long Labor Day weekend!

I have been fantastically busy…I’m still single but I do have a new man in my life .. a puppy named Jake! He’s so full of energy he really keeps me on my toes, but after a few sessions with a dog trainer he’s a great listener and has quickly become my best friend, going with me everwhere. He even loves coming on the boat with me!

I am happy to announce the launch of the new design for my eBook’s web site ThaFantasyFiles.com! I think it looks clean and bright whereas my last design was a bit on the dark and gloomy side. While my erotic stories tend to happen in the bedroom, they are exciting and uplifting and I think this more colorful site relays that as well as all the new formats I’m now published in!

Please check it out and let me know what you think!

The Fantasy Files : Six Erotic Sex Stories by Lisa Alpina

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New Pics of Sexy Me :)

My friend took this pic of me when we took her dog to the park, I love this pic, it makes me look 10 years younger 🙂

Hope you all had a nice weekend!

Please check out my Sex Stories at The Fantasy Files!

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Sex on Vacation

My best friend and her husband have invited me to go on vacation with them to Jamaica this summer. They are staying at a Beaches Resort and I really don’t want to be a third wheel, so I’m thinking about staying at another resort called Hedonism III. It’s an all inclusive clothing optional resort and to be honest, I’m thrilled at the thought of going as a single woman, strollng around topless, drinking ‘free’ drinks and enjoying the nightlife having the pick of the litter so to speak – of both men and women for some no strings attached fun.

It may seem odd to most people but I figure I can actually write this trip off as a business trip and use the eye candy and hot action in order to garner inspiration for my next book. By making some new friends in an open minded environment, as well as having some unadulterated fun, I’m sure I can get people to start talking get the creative juices flowing.

Plus the thought of having sex on vacation makes me hot! I have no desire to start dating again but it’s been too long since I’ve had some purely physical fun. It may also be a great way to get my first bisexual experience under my belt!

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Reflecting on Dating

This past week I spent some time with friends where we sat around eating lunch and basically aired the dirty laundry of our dating situations. We all seemed to have similar stories with a different cast of characters. There was the guy we really like but we know is less than inspired and motivated and settles for less, the guy who would be so perfect and is so NICE but there is just no chemistry, and last and certainly least, the guy who lies, cheats, but was super cute and fun to make out with (up until finding out about his shadiness).

The guy who continues to intrigue me is the one who is seemingly so perfect yet so unappealing. He has all the right characteristics to make a great boyfriend, and he displays them with ease and sincerity. Yet whenever we talk about him to our friends, our eyes become glazed over and we take a dramatic sigh before ending every sentence about him with, “But he’s so nice…” It’s like it pains us to even think about it because what we think we always wanted is standing before us for the taking. Yet, we cannot make a motion to grasp it.

Our friends tell us to just concede defeat and stop seeing the guy because we are wasting our time and his. Even though he’s somewhat perfect, we’re never going to be attracted to him and it will only end in disaster with someone (most likely him) getting hurt. So we blow him off by not answering his calls or returning his text messages. When we accidentally answer his calls, we are aloof and “too busy” to hang out or talk. And voile, just like that, he disappears.

Now what is even more perplexing is the decision to entertain and keep the guy who we know ultimately can’t give us what we want around. When he calls we rush to the phone, when we’re out with him the butterflies stir in our stomach, when we’re with our friends, he dominates our portion of the “boy” topic of conversation. So I ask (without having any clue to the answer): Why do we do this?

The simple truth is we make these kinds of decisions in our love lives everyday without flinching. Why we do it remains a mystery. It seems that when we decide to ditch the great guy for the more exciting, aloof guy, we are demonstrating that we are not as highly evolved as we might think. For our hearts and minds allow us to choose the superficial over substance. Our egos are driven by the challenge and the uncertainty. Of course we can’t forget that 9 times out of 10 what the mediocre guy lacks in qualities, he makes up for in looks or sexual magnetism.

So ladies, I hate to break it to you but we are really not that much different from the shallow men we frown upon. However I have enough confidence in the funny, strong and driven women to say that we will most likely not settle and eventually find the man who encompasses everything we want. But at least we can say we’ve walked a day in a typical man’s shoes.

As a woman who once settled, I can honestly say that the man who lacks in genuine qualities and relies on sexual magnetism, will ultimately become jealous, suspicious and controlling. Confidence goes a long way, quiet sincerity is usually a better sign of it.

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